Friday, November 10, 2017

The Deterioration of Family Values R7 - YJ Draiman

The Deterioration of Family Values R7
The Deterioration of Family Values R7

By YJ Draiman

Since World War 2 when women were encouraged to join the work force en mass, to replace the men who went to war and keep the economy and the war effort going. 

There has been a deterioration of family values and a breakdown of the family unit, a trend where a mother was not at home to take care of her children, monitor their behavior, help with the homework and discipline when and where necessary.

The advancement in technology has harmed family values. The Media and Television has totally destroyed any comprehension of values in our socie
ty. We have become a materialistic society – No holds barred.

The lack of discipline and total disregard for authority and respect is clear to anyone who has watched the past 50 years and seen our society’s values deteriorate.

One example alone is that 50 years ago a teacher was happy to go to school to teach, a teacher was respected and looked up-to, a teacher could discipline. Today teachers fear for their lives they are petrified by their students, discipline is restricted both to teachers and parents alike.

This scenario caries on to other social interactions of society today, and the situation is getting worse and worse every year.

Society is dressing more provocative and morals are almost non-existent. Modesty is a thing of the past.

You will notice that many families who come from other countries have a very strong family values, tradition, good education, respect and the children excel in their studies. That is because they have not had the chance to be influenced by our overly liberal society.

The education of our children begins at home and continues in school – the parents and the school must take a proactive approach to teach our children values and respect.

In today’s society a teacher is not permitted to discipline a student, the teachers will be sued, not to mention that teachers fears for their safety.

Parents in today’s society are also restricted as to how to discipline their children; in many cases parents are getting sued. In many cases children would never dream of treating their parents with such disrespect 50 years ago. Today some parents are afraid of their own children.

Abuse has been and will be with society to eternity that does not give society the right to prohibit discipline; a few acts of abuse should not cause society to prohibit proper discipline.

When an individual or individuals utilize a vehicle to commit a crime cause the death of others, does society prohibit vehicles altogether, no, a vehicle is very important for our everyday life.

Well, the discipline of our children by parents and teachers is extremely important for our society and the preservation of humanity.

It seems that our society is so busy chasing the dollar, fame and glory, that anything goes all values goes out the window. We should be an example of honesty, integrity and respect to our children.

Are Americans patriotic and proud enough to defend, protect and bring family values back to America? Is America ready to fight for honesty integrity and justice in our society, eliminate corruption and fraud, waste and self serving programs?

Re-invigorate our economy, rebuild our industrial base and decrease our dependence on foreign economies and resources.

YJ Draiman, Los Angeles, CA.

2 comments:

  1. Submitted by YJ Draiman (United States), Jan 11, 2017 at 13:38

    Truer words were never spoken
    Quote from a WWII veteran overhearing someone say that 'You can't bomb an ideology.":

    "The hell you can't, because we did it. These Muslims are no different than the [Imperial] Japanese. The Japs had their suicide bombers too. And we stopped them. What it takes is the resolve and will to use a level of brutality and violence that your generations can't stomach. And until you can, this shit won't stop.
    It took us on the beaches with bullets, clearing out caves with flame throwers, and men like LeMay burning down their cities, killing people by the tens of thousands.

    And then it took 2 atom bombs on top of it. Plus we had to bomb the shit out of German cities to get them to quit fighting. But, if that was what it took to win, we were willing to do it. Until you are willing to do the same...well I hope you enjoy this shit, because it ain't going to stop!"
    Back then, we had leadership, resolve, resources and determination. Today we're afraid to hurt people's feelings....and worry about which bathroom to piss in!!!

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  2. The Deterioration of Family Values R10

    By YJ Draiman

    Since World War 2 women were encouraged to join the work force en mass to replace the men who went to war and keep the economy and the war effort going.

    There has been a deterioration of family values and a breakdown of the family unit, a trend where a mother was not at home to take care of her children, monitor their behavior, who are their friends, help with the homework and discipline when and where necessary.

    The advancement in technology has harmed family values. (Adults and children are walking around glued to their cellphone oblivious to their surroundings). The Media and Television has totally destroyed any comprehension of values in our society. We have become a materialistic society – No holds barred.

    A lot of studies have indicated that social media has a negative outcome. Some of the negative outcome is for example, depression, anxiety, cat fishing, bullying, terrorism and criminal activities which are some of the negative sides of social media on societies. Generally, when peoples use social media for appropriate purposes and predetermined goals the outcome will be positive and the reverse is true for negative side effects. In order to decrease and save the societies from its negative side effects and encourage the positive ones, all concerned will have to work collaboratively.

    The lack of discipline and total disregard for authority and respect is clear to anyone who has watched the past 50 years and seen our society’s values deteriorate. The indiscriminate shooting and violence at schools and in public is one example.

    One example of change is that 50 years ago a teacher was happy to go to school to teach, a teacher was respected and looked up-to, a teacher could discipline. Today teachers fear for their lives, they are petrified by their students, and discipline is restricted both to teachers and parents alike.

    This scenario carries on to other social interactions of society today and the situation is getting worse and worse every year.

    Society is dressing more provocative and morals are almost non-existent. Modesty is a thing of the past.

    You will notice that many families who come from other countries have very strong family values, tradition, good education, respect and the children excel in their studies. That is because they have not had the chance to be influenced by our overly liberal society.

    The education of our children begins at home and continues in school – the parents and the school must take a proactive approach to teach our children values and respect.

    In today’s society a teacher is not permitted to discipline a student. The teachers will be sued, not to mention that teachers fear for their safety.

    Parents in today’s society are also restricted as to how to discipline their children. In many cases parents are getting sued. In most cases children would never dream of treating their parents with such disrespect 50 years ago. Today some parents are afraid of their own children.

    Abuse has been and will be with society to eternity. That does not give society the right to prohibit discipline. A few acts of abuse should not cause society to prohibit proper discipline.

    When an individual or individuals utilize a vehicle to commit a crime or cause the death of others, does society prohibit vehicles altogether? NO, a vehicle is very important for our everyday life.

    The discipline of our children by parents and teachers is extremely important for our society and the preservation of humanity.

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    YJ Draiman, Los Angeles, CA.

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